Xmas accordion

Mel and Irene Treakle, Kay’s parents, were avid square dancers.  They taught a class, Aces and Laces, on Wednesday nights.  Mel called weekly Saturday night dances.  “Oom-pah music”, as Kay called it, hit their sweet spot.

A neighbor across the street taught the accordion, a regular feature of square dance music.  Mel signed up his daughter Karen, and later Karen’s younger sister Kay, for lessons.  Karen became adept, and was entered in a Washington State competition for children.  Second graders, I believe.  She won.  State champ.  And several years later Kay won the same contest, though she promptly stopped playing.  She wanted to learn the guitar, like the Beatles.

Karen, however, kept her accordion, moved on to other fields, and needed to find a place to store her instrument while she was in nursing school.  Kay lived in a group house in Seattle, and agreed to allow Karen to keep the accordion in the basement, where it sat for several years.  When Karen finally came to pick it up, the neglected instrument had molded, and sustained water damage.

In subsequent years, Karen often brought up the story at family gatherings, as a way to needle her sister.  Kay couldn’t care less, but telling the story of how Kay destroyed Karen’s promising musical career became an annual ritual.  Kay got bored at some point, and decided to co-opt the story, by amplifying it.  She recruited family members to tell it themselves.  One Xmas Alie and Hanna, Karen’s daughters, sang a satirical duet memorializing the tragedy.

Another Xmas everyone told accordion jokes.  Their mom, Irene, in her 90s, brought down the house with “What did the accordion player get on their intelligence test?”  Answer: “Drool.”

Finally, to pre-empt their sister, Kay and Kandy purchased and packaged a used accordion, and gave it to Karen for Xmas of 2009.

Kay figured that if Karen ever brought up the story again, then everyone would demand that Karen perform.  The needling stopped.

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Bruce Hoeft
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In Guatemala with Kay

In the fall of 1992, Kay and I attended a Spanish language school in the city of Quetzaltenango in the western highlands of Guatemala. The school we went to focused on teaching Spanish as a way of introducing people from other countries to the realities of daily life in Guatemala. We quickly learned that the Mam people, who founded the city centuries before the Spanish conquest, called it Xela. We were hosted by local families, and Kay’s family household included two young kids, much to her delight.

 

During our two-week session, we’d meet at school in the morning for lessons, go home for lunch, then meet up again most afternoons to explore Xela by foot and mini buses. Walking through Xela, we talked constantly about what we saw. Xela is full of churches, and dominant Catholic practices there have clear indigenous influences. One day we came across a parish festival where this was especially obvious, and we followed the procession for a long time. Kay was fascinated by the major role of religion in peoples’ lives, and tensions between the dominant Catholic church and fast-growing Evangelical congregations spreading with support from conservative churches in the US. There was also coffee shop Kay liked to go to, both for the coffee and because local teens came to practice their English with tourists. When someone asked her name — ¿Ques es tu nombre? —  she’d say “Kay,” and the person would repeat the question. She’d say “Kay” again, then laugh and explain that in English, Kay was a name, and the conversation would go on from there.

 

Toward the end of our stay in Xela, to share the American tradition of Thanksgiving, she decided to make a pumpkin pie for her host family. We dedicated our afternoon walks to finding ingredients, and with a few modifications she managed to bake something close to what she’d make at home. She said her family ate it politely, but seemed puzzled by this way of preparing squash.

 

When our classes ended, we took a bus further into the highlands for a few days to visit Santiago Atitlán, a Mayan town on the shore of Lake Atitlán. Like many buses we saw there, ours was an old yellow American school bus, called “Blue Birds” (because they’re made by the Blue Bird Company in Georgia). These elderly school buses were not built for steep, rocky, narrow mountain roads and accidents were common. On our way up into the mountains, we passed a bus that had gone off the road, and were happy to arrive in Panajachel safely. From Panajachel we took a ferry across the lake to Santiago Atitlán. Three volcanos surround the lake basin, and the landscapes were stunning. Once we arrived, the streets there were full of life, and many people around us spoke Mam. The market stalls lining many of the streets were packed with beautiful weavings, fabrics, carvings, paintings, and other crafts. Kay bought a wooden jaguar that she carried around for the rest of the day (I think it still lives in Bruce’s living room). We visited a womens’ collective, an NGO, and lots of galleries.

 

The next day we visited Maximón, a Mayan deity housed and cared for by the family elected by the community for this honor for one year. To visit Maximón, you have to find out where he is and how to get there. When we paid our respects, Maximón resided in an enclosed patio in a modest home on a back street in a neighborhood we had some trouble finding. He was attended by several men, and several men and women from the community were sitting in his presence, praying and chanting softly in Mam. Maximón enjoys drinking and smoking, so we brought him cigarettes and a bottle of spirits along with our cash offering. One of his attendants poured him a drink from the bottle we brought, and another lit a new cigarette for him whenever the previous one burned down.

 

Our lakeside hotel was outside of town, a lovely collection of stone cottages. We swam and talked and felt so very lucky to be there. It was also strange to realize that less than two years earlier, 13 Indigenous people had been massacred by Guatemalan soldiers stationed in the area less than a mile up the road, a part of the brutal civil wars in the region at the time. In Guatemala, the military targeted Indigenous communities and areas with Indigenous majorities explicitly. I had worked with refugees fleeing this violence during the 1980’s, and seeing vestiges of what people had told me about, in Santiago Atitlán and other places, was sobering for us both.

 

Soon it was time to return to Xela to pack our things and head home, Kay to Tacoma Park, and me to California. It was Kay’s suggestion to go back via the Yucatan Peninsula (not exactly the most direct route) and visit Tikal National Park on the way. I’m grateful she did, and will never forget walking among the incredible pyramids and ruins of the ancient Mayan city there, a vast area now covered in thick jungle. On our last day, after climbing up the massive stone steps of one of the pyramids, we noticed we were literally sitting among the tree tops, surrounded by toucans sitting in the branches – a perfect ending to an amazing trip.

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Monica Moore

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Kay Was Fantastic

Kay was the most incredible person I have ever known. I have built business and wealth, amassed solid achievements, and have cultivated many wonderful relationships with fantastic people all over the world, but Kay stood apart.  One image says it all:  Kay perched on the bow of a zodiac playing “chicken” with a Shell super tanker in high seas.  What strength, determination and grit were on display. And she won!  That image continues to motivate me, as well as the standards and principles that Kat lived by. But mostly, just the thought of Kay has me striving still to the highest levels of accomplishment. She was my friend, and it was friendship based on a common goal: save those special places still left that could actually advance biodiversity on a planet quickly becoming, environmentally, impoverished. Otherwise, we had subtle differences as to how we looked at the news driven issues of the day. Nevertheless, a mutual sense of decency and sensibility and genuine friendship were always our common denominator and always resulted in us sharing a bottle of wine.  Nevertheless, Kay always chose the bottle.

I met Kay about 15 years before she was taken from the world tragically by the effects of big industry. Fortunately for us, the Harder Foundation, where I had just become President, we had our main office in
Tacoma, WA. And at that time, Kay was wanting to return home to Tacoma and we had just about completed a frustrating, exhausting and largely unsuccessful search for a new Executive Director for the Foundation – a position to be based in Tacoma. The Foundation, in our minds, was very special. My father, about 40 years previously had essentially created a vehicle, Harder Foundation, with the ambition to advance smart, savvy conservation advocacy work in the Northwestern part of the USA; but finding someone equally special that could actually embody the principals that my dad had envisioned was not coming easy … almost impossibly so, and then Kay entered the realm of possibility.

Wow!  Just like lightening hitting … but in our case delivering a beautiful gift … and not a burnt barn or lost roof top, Kay began her final stage of a long career of conservation and environmental advocacy with Harder, and sadly the final major engagement of her life because she still had so much more to develop and advance. Throughout the whole duration of her engagement with the Foundation, Kay delivered year after year solid strategy and guidance to our grantee base that, with time, delivered extraordinary outcomes … and outcomes that continue to produce even more endurable outcomes.  Those final years were those during which she suffered miserably from the effects of her Asarco given cancer, yet she “soldiered” on and strove to be the best asset, the best benefactor, the best leader to the Foundation she could be so we could continue to operate at levels into the future that both she and my dad would find satisfying.

Whether or not Harder continues to operate at a level both Kay and my father would be pleased is not something we can know as both passed away prematurely and were not able to continue their guidance, reflection and feedback.  Hopefully, Kay and I will connect again in the afterlife and Kay will provide me her final assessment and suggest what I could have done better and I know she will have found a lot!  But I do know, in the present, with Kay always in my thoughts, I do our work in her construct of principles, integrity, hard work, lofty goal setting and respect for those actually doing the heavy lift.

I truly treasure the friendship I had with Kay and I think of her all the time … her brilliance, frankness, sincereness, and greatness.  What a loss to the world, but what inspiration for us all!

John Driggers

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John Driggers

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16 plane flights in three weeks

16 plane flights in 3 weeks

In 1993 Kay spent nearly a month in Argentina, Paraguay, Brazil, and Uruguay, to meet folks who wanted help fighting World Bank-funded projects that were destroying natural habitat, and imperiling people who lived there.  I found a notebook she used during the trip, with a few journal entries.  It included a description of a boat trip in the Pantanal, the world’s largest wetland, and some of the fantastic wildlife she saw there.  Including predatory fish, and bugs…

“A night from hell.  It’s hot beyond imagination.  Our river boat has beached itself on a spit of sand for the night.  Our crew made us a huge dinner, including piranha soup.  We were hot, sweaty, dripping from sticky dirt, and went in swimming to cool off.  The ecology professor, Carolina, is telling us not to worry, since the piranha don’t swim on the wide, sandy parts of the river.  Meanwhile, on the other side of the boat, our hearty crew, who stood in the river up to their necks while drinking beer, had gone fishing.  They then showed us a bowl full of still-alive piranha captured from the waters we’d been swimming in.  Deborah sticks a table knife in one’s mouth and its tiny sharp teeth click on the metal, making a dangerous sound.  No piranhas, eh? But we get to eat them instead of them eating us.  Sopa de Piranha is actually not too bad!

On the beach we made a huge fire to keep the mosquitos away.  The crew brings table and chairs from the boat to the beach, lays out an enormous feast, and we drink tons of beer.  After dinner I begin thinking about sleep, and realize a mosquito net would have been wise.  I first drag a mattress from the boat out to the beach, thinking there might be a breeze to keep the critters away.  I cover up and lay there for about 5 minutes, listening to the hum of the mosquitos, as they have no trouble finding me.  There is no breeze.

Next I drag the mattress back to the boat, and return for sleep in the tiny bunkroom/hot house/sardine can-without-air.  I claim the hammock again, this time on the river side of the deck.  There I cover my hot, sticky, sweaty body with an impermeable layer of repellent.  Then I cover myself up inside the hammock, making a tent with the sheet.  I lay, waiting for sleep to come, while the full moon rises over the water, and the night critters begin their loud, raucous bellowing.  Mosquitos, ignoring the repellent, are attacking me through the bottom of the hammock, seemingly by the thousands.

After about an hour of misery, my legs and back covered with welts that itch like crazy, I sit up and put on another layer of slimy chemical cream, this time hydrocortisone to stop the itching.  I lie back down in the hammock, make my little tent, and pray for a breeze, a wind, a rainstorm, something!

Meanwhile our grizzled captain, asleep on the deck below, starts snoring like a bandsaw.  Deborah and Beto, awake under a mosquito net, begin laughing.  The snoring and laughter continue, contributing to the river noise which is rising in pitch as the night wears on.  I am still being harassed by mosquitos.  There is no possibility of sleep.  This goes on for hours.

Finally, I decide that if I am going to keep from going insane, I have to change my strategy.  So I sit up in the hammock, cover my head and body with the sheet (now soaked in sweat, repellent, and itch cream), and look at the river.  To keep my mind from tortuous thoughts, I concentrate on river sounds.  I take one sound at a time, imagining the animals that are out there, hopefully eating mosquitos.  I decide that the price of the incredible diversity and abundance of life in this swamp is my blood.  I am part the food chain.  It’s OK, a small contribution of one sleepless night in this fantastic wilderness.”

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Bruce Hoeft
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Fierce Defender of Justice. and Amazing Friend and Co-conspirator

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(pictured: Dana Clark, Kay and Andrea Durbin on a visit to Tacoma where we were touring Kay’s beautiful garden)

Kay was one of the first people I met in Washington, DC when she was at Bank Information Center. As a young campaigner, she taught me a lot about how to track the World Bank’s investments, how to support communities impacted by the Bank’s loans and how to avoid the end run with the endless charts and graphs from the bankers.  Most importantly, she shared her passion for justice and her unflappable fierceness for justice and unwillingness to tolerate foolishness and platitudes.  We worked together meeting with Bank officials, protesting in the streets (“good gawd, Mr. Wolfensohn, how do you sleep at night” was one of our favorite signs we saw) and organizing with and to support communities around the world.

We connected on our shared passion for justice, and also because we were both from the Pacific Northwest.  After many years working together, I was thrilled when she figured out her pathway back to the Northwest and to a great job at the Harder Foundation.  I followed her back to the PNW several years later when I moved to Portland, Oregon to become the executive director at a statewide environmental organization.  We were lucky to find our way back to working together. I remember phone calls, lunches and drinks together where we would swap stories and so much laughter.

I am lucky to have had Kay Treakle in my life and to have had the chance to work with such a great group of colleagues who became even better friends (Kay, David Hunter, Dana Clark and many others).

Kay was special in so many ways, and touched so many lives. I am grateful that Kay touched my life and I hold her in my heart.

Author:

Andrea Durbin

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Tossed from the US Army Corps Office in Buenos Aires

Among many South American projects Kay worked on in the 1990s, one sought to protect the largest wetland on earth: the Pantanal in Brazil.

 

In the early-1990s there were plans to engineer the Paraguay River like we’ve done to the Mississippi.  Remove the natural back-and-forth meanders, straighten channels and tributaries, and dredge the river bottom, again and again, to allow for cheap transport.  In this case it would let barges carry Brazilian soybeans to downriver ports, and to the Atlantic.

The project was called the “hidrovia”, waterway, I guess.  The engineering would increase the speed and volume of the river, and lower the water table, which would dramatically damage the surrounding wetlands.  Kay worked with local and international NGOs to investigate impacts to the Pantanal, and was surprised to find that the US Army Corps of Engineers was advising hidrovia proponents in Argentina.  The Corps has a notorious history of habitat-destructing engineering projects in the US.  So the NGOs set up a meeting at the Corps’ office in Buenos Aires, to find out if steps were being taken to protect the wetlands.

Kay described the office as “palatial”, and the group was met by a Corps director who gave them all happy talk about how wonderful the hidrovia would be.  She, and others, responded with questions.  Direct questions.  Technical questions.  She said the director became increasingly agitated.  After 30 minutes he asked them to leave.  They said they had an hourlong appointment, and he hadn’t begun to answer their inquiries.  He then called security, and guards forced them to leave.  Dumped them in a parking lot.

This was 30 years ago, and I really don’t know the issue.  Apparently ongoing local pushback got bad press, and forced international agencies, who were asked to provide loans for the hidrovia, to investigate.  The project stalled.  I don’t know who asked the questions at the meeting.  But Kay always did thorough preparation, and was unwilling to accept convenient statements that didn’t answer her concerns.  Classic Treakle.

I looked up hidrovia online today, and it seems like there is now a renewed effort to channelize and dredge the Paraguay river.

Author:
Bruce Hoeft
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Love at first sight

Almost 25 years ago, Bruce and Kay came down to our place on Grays Harbor Estuary.  We were donating our “Hill House” to the WEC dinner silent auction.  For us, it was love at first sight.  Kay was like the stop motion films of days gone by where the flowers would open and bloom before your very eyes wherever she went.  We are so thankful to have been part of her journey and she ours.  We miss her.

Bruce, we love you too. 🙂

Author:

Linda Orgel & Arthur (RD) Grunbaum

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