In Guatemala with Kay

In the fall of 1992, Kay and I attended a Spanish language school in the city of Quetzaltenango in the western highlands of Guatemala. The school we went to focused on teaching Spanish as a way of introducing people from other countries to the realities of daily life in Guatemala. We quickly learned that the Mam people, who founded the city centuries before the Spanish conquest, called it Xela. We were hosted by local families, and Kay’s family household included two young kids, much to her delight.

 

During our two-week session, we’d meet at school in the morning for lessons, go home for lunch, then meet up again most afternoons to explore Xela by foot and mini buses. Walking through Xela, we talked constantly about what we saw. Xela is full of churches, and dominant Catholic practices there have clear indigenous influences. One day we came across a parish festival where this was especially obvious, and we followed the procession for a long time. Kay was fascinated by the major role of religion in peoples’ lives, and tensions between the dominant Catholic church and fast-growing Evangelical congregations spreading with support from conservative churches in the US. There was also coffee shop Kay liked to go to, both for the coffee and because local teens came to practice their English with tourists. When someone asked her name — ¿Ques es tu nombre? —  she’d say “Kay,” and the person would repeat the question. She’d say “Kay” again, then laugh and explain that in English, Kay was a name, and the conversation would go on from there.

 

Toward the end of our stay in Xela, to share the American tradition of Thanksgiving, she decided to make a pumpkin pie for her host family. We dedicated our afternoon walks to finding ingredients, and with a few modifications she managed to bake something close to what she’d make at home. She said her family ate it politely, but seemed puzzled by this way of preparing squash.

 

When our classes ended, we took a bus further into the highlands for a few days to visit Santiago Atitlán, a Mayan town on the shore of Lake Atitlán. Like many buses we saw there, ours was an old yellow American school bus, called “Blue Birds” (because they’re made by the Blue Bird Company in Georgia). These elderly school buses were not built for steep, rocky, narrow mountain roads and accidents were common. On our way up into the mountains, we passed a bus that had gone off the road, and were happy to arrive in Panajachel safely. From Panajachel we took a ferry across the lake to Santiago Atitlán. Three volcanos surround the lake basin, and the landscapes were stunning. Once we arrived, the streets there were full of life, and many people around us spoke Mam. The market stalls lining many of the streets were packed with beautiful weavings, fabrics, carvings, paintings, and other crafts. Kay bought a wooden jaguar that she carried around for the rest of the day (I think it still lives in Bruce’s living room). We visited a womens’ collective, an NGO, and lots of galleries.

 

The next day we visited Maximón, a Mayan deity housed and cared for by the family elected by the community for this honor for one year. To visit Maximón, you have to find out where he is and how to get there. When we paid our respects, Maximón resided in an enclosed patio in a modest home on a back street in a neighborhood we had some trouble finding. He was attended by several men, and several men and women from the community were sitting in his presence, praying and chanting softly in Mam. Maximón enjoys drinking and smoking, so we brought him cigarettes and a bottle of spirits along with our cash offering. One of his attendants poured him a drink from the bottle we brought, and another lit a new cigarette for him whenever the previous one burned down.

 

Our lakeside hotel was outside of town, a lovely collection of stone cottages. We swam and talked and felt so very lucky to be there. It was also strange to realize that less than two years earlier, 13 Indigenous people had been massacred by Guatemalan soldiers stationed in the area less than a mile up the road, a part of the brutal civil wars in the region at the time. In Guatemala, the military targeted Indigenous communities and areas with Indigenous majorities explicitly. I had worked with refugees fleeing this violence during the 1980’s, and seeing vestiges of what people had told me about, in Santiago Atitlán and other places, was sobering for us both.

 

Soon it was time to return to Xela to pack our things and head home, Kay to Tacoma Park, and me to California. It was Kay’s suggestion to go back via the Yucatan Peninsula (not exactly the most direct route) and visit Tikal National Park on the way. I’m grateful she did, and will never forget walking among the incredible pyramids and ruins of the ancient Mayan city there, a vast area now covered in thick jungle. On our last day, after climbing up the massive stone steps of one of the pyramids, we noticed we were literally sitting among the tree tops, surrounded by toucans sitting in the branches – a perfect ending to an amazing trip.

Author:
Monica Moore
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Chosen Family

Fierce Defender of Justice. and Amazing Friend and Co-conspirator

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(pictured: Dana Clark, Kay and Andrea Durbin on a visit to Tacoma where we were touring Kay’s beautiful garden)

Kay was one of the first people I met in Washington, DC when she was at Bank Information Center. As a young campaigner, she taught me a lot about how to track the World Bank’s investments, how to support communities impacted by the Bank’s loans and how to avoid the end run with the endless charts and graphs from the bankers.  Most importantly, she shared her passion for justice and her unflappable fierceness for justice and unwillingness to tolerate foolishness and platitudes.  We worked together meeting with Bank officials, protesting in the streets (“good gawd, Mr. Wolfensohn, how do you sleep at night” was one of our favorite signs we saw) and organizing with and to support communities around the world.

We connected on our shared passion for justice, and also because we were both from the Pacific Northwest.  After many years working together, I was thrilled when she figured out her pathway back to the Northwest and to a great job at the Harder Foundation.  I followed her back to the PNW several years later when I moved to Portland, Oregon to become the executive director at a statewide environmental organization.  We were lucky to find our way back to working together. I remember phone calls, lunches and drinks together where we would swap stories and so much laughter.

I am lucky to have had Kay Treakle in my life and to have had the chance to work with such a great group of colleagues who became even better friends (Kay, David Hunter, Dana Clark and many others).

Kay was special in so many ways, and touched so many lives. I am grateful that Kay touched my life and I hold her in my heart.

Author:
Andrea Durbin
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Fellow World Bank Warrior

baseball

We were fortunate to have many folks from abroad stay with us in Takoma Park, MD.  People whom Kay had visited, mostly in Central and South America, for her work with the Bank Information Center.

Maria Augusta was an anthropology professor from Ecuador, as I recall.  Our son was a devoted Orioles fan at the time of her visit, and she was intrigued by Nate’s enthusiasm for a sport she knew nothing about.  Kay took her to Baltimore to see a game.

As soon as the O’s took the field, Maria Augusta, whose athletic baseline was likely soccer-centric, exclaimed “You Americans are so unfair!”  Kay asked why she would say such a thing.  “Well, look at it.  It’s nine against one!”

Kay spent the whole game explaining the arcane rules of baseball.  By the eighth inning, Maria Augusta proclaimed an insight into US culture, and economic global dominance.  Unlike the singular soccer impulse to put the ball in the goal, she saw patient, strategic moves: with threatening runners on base, a manager might opt to switch pitchers for a left-handed batter.  Or players would willingly jeopardize their own success to enhance success for the team: sacrifice flies to advance base runners.  Ruthless exploitation of senseless rules: a batter successfully sprinted to first after the catcher dropped strike three.  Oh, and breaking those damned rules: why else do they call it “stealing” a base?  Also, utter devotion to numbers: batting average, on-base percentage, counting pitches… all contributing to a statistical analysis that helps you win.  America’s all about winning.

I guess this is less about Kay, and more about Maria Augusta’s insights.  But it was the kind of cultural dance that Kay delighted in promoting.  And it enlivened life in Takoma Park.

Author:
Bruce Hoeft
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partners

Kay changed my life and was my greatest teacher

Kay Treakle changed my life and helped define my approach to activism. She was my mentor, my boss and eventually my good friend. I think about her all the time, I miss her, and I still find myself wanting her sage advice.
I first connected with her in the late-1990s. I was a 20-something working for Oxfam International in Maputo, Mozambique, where I was helping local organizations to challenge the role of the World Bank and the International Monetary Fund.
Kay already had decades of experience under her belt, including time on the ships and zodiacs that defined the early-days of Greenpeace. But in the late-90s she was in Washington, D.C., at an environmental organization called the Bank Information Centre.
I reached out to her and she eventually came down to Maputo to do a training for us on the inner workings of the World Bank.

One night while she was in Maputo she looked over at me and, completly out of the blue, said: “Why don’t you come to Washington and help us start an Africa program?”

I don’t remember what I said to her, but less than two years later I pulled into D.C. and proceeded to work for her for the next four years.

During my time in Washington she gave me all the space I needed to make my own mistakes and all the support I needed to thrive. She was  always there for me but never took any of my shit.
I’m blessed to have learnt from a lot of great activists over the course of my life, but I hear her voice more than anyone:
– When I’m outraged and want to rush into a situation filled with righteous indignation I can hear her say: “you have to have the charts and graphs to back you up!!!”.
– When I get too focused on the urgency and importance of any one political arena, country, or opportunity, I hear her talking about solidarity and the importance of working to the needs of your partners.
– As an Executive Director, when I get too focused on building the organization that I’m immediately responsible for, I can hear her telling me that we need to be building a movement not an organization (we are are stronger together).
– When I’m worried that something is going to disrupt a delicate political relationship that I’ve built, I picture her on a zodiac in front of massive whaling ship and I’m reminded of the importance of symbolism, civil disobedience and direct action.
– And every time I try to sell a particular strategy as “the one and true way to make change”, I hear her reminding me that movements are like ecosystems (it takes a village) and change-making is about attacking a problem “with spears from all sides”.
There is no doubt that Kay had an edge (though she hid it better than I’ve ever been able to when dealing with troglodytes). You could tell that she was pissed-off about the social and environmental injustices that define our world. She was tough as nails, did not always suffer fools gladly and cursed like a sailor behind the scenes. But she  had a Socratic approach to conversations (she always helped me think through an issue by drawing me out) and her edge always manifested as an unapologetic insistence on clear strategic thinking (she could help you turn your anger into a theory of change and strategy – and man did she ever love a clear and tight strategy, I’ve never met a better campaign strategist).
Finally, I remember her cackle. She loved to laugh and it came out of her like it was suddenly breaking through a dam. It kind of exploded and then lingered in a big smile that had a way of making you feel happy (even proud) that you’d somehow managed to make her laugh. Among many other things, Kay had a healthy appreciation for the absurd – which is one of the many reasons we got along so well.
Thanks Kay. I’ll be looking for you on the other side
Author:
Graham Saul
Connected:
I worked for her and she was my friend

My Guru

I was the Director of PRISMA, a regional research organization based in El Salvador, working throughout Central America on the interface of environmental and development issues in the postwar -mostly rural- context of the region.  The opportunities for change seemed enormous with the Sandinistas in Nicaragua (1st government), El Salvador with the left as a real political party, and Guatemala finally ending its decades long and treacherous warfare.

During that period in the 90’s, I was looking for someone to work with who could help local NGO’s – like us (PRISMA) add a layer of pressure for social change on the enormous amount and weight of international finance that was descending on our region.  We needed a guide on how and what to do that was relevant and feasible, for real social change.    I went in search of someone knowledgeable about how the Banks worked at the same time hopeful that there was a way to influence them, and savvy enough to know to do this.  Kay turned out to be that person, from her perch as the Director at the Bank Information Center.

What struck me about Kay, from day one, and for the rest of the years we shared an eventful friendship, was not only her savvy proposals on how to work the banks, but also her demeanor and particular sense of social commitment. Kay carried herself with a slightly boyish style, a carefree sense of how she looked without abandon, while she constantly focused on what was the essential task at hand. She wasn’t being compulsive, just efficacious. Eventually, when we became neighbors in her other Tacoma, Washington, (DC) I found this to be true whether it was working on the banks, making bread or pesto.

She was truly one of my gurus, a humble one who repelled praise, through humor, but that was to be taken seriously.  She didn’t like to be admonished, at least not in public, and made one feel as though it was a waste of time.  No-bullshit would be too strong, but Kay didn’t mess with the irrelevant stuff. Figuring out together what was relevant was major for me.

Different from many of my other ‘gringo’ friends, her notion of social commitment was not a job, a Monday through Friday affair.  Kay had a sharp, deeply grounded working-class perspective on what she did and on life in general, and a sense of commitment to social change that was engrained in her personality.  It didn’t matter that we hadn’t shared all those years of struggle during the wars in Central America, the task now was different, and she was there to help, to guide.  She quickly let me know when and where we were wasting time, and where to turn.

Few colleagues I have known along my own life journey had the vision and capacity to get ‘the big picture’ about how the world of development finance really worked, and at the same time had an engrained notion of what detail, local impact, smaller trends were important to learn, know and transmit to this world of global finance institutions and individuals.  And, she was willing to go where needed to get just that information, hand-in-hand with the local organizations.  This was a superbly rare ‘find’ in the world of Washington, DC.

We hit it off immediately, enjoyed each other (and eventually our families) and worked together over many years, going way beyond what I had needed for PRISMA.  Kay ‘took my hand’ and led me to another level of knowledge and performance in the constant struggle to thwart the demonical actions of extractive capital, to hold the spending institutions ‘feet to the fire,’ and to learn how to ‘speak truth to power.’

As neighbors we enjoyed beer-enhanced BBQ’s with our families, never short of reasons to criticize and laugh at the world around us.  As Mom’s we shared our concerns for the future of our kids. We mused together on whether the US would ever get straightened out on the environment, and what it really meant to tackle Climate Change from ground-up and top-down.  When she eventually moved back to her other Tacoma, Washington and I went back to El Salvador, I found myself consulting her on an issue here and there.  Partly because I needed her savvy advise, and partly because I just missed her.  I still do.

 

Author:
Deborah Barry
Connected:
She had my back in confronting the banks

the author

Kay wrote a book, along with Jonny Fox, Dana Clark, and others, documenting case studies in South America and Asia, where villagers fought to stop World Bank-funded projects that harmed their communities.  The book is called “Demanding Accountability”.  Kay’s working title was “It Could Have Been Worse”.

Author:
Bruce Hoeft
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partners

Raising sons as part of the Takoma Park (MD) “tribe”

In 1988, when my son Eric was in kindergarten, I got a call from the father of a boy in his class, asking if Eric could come to their house for a playdate.  That was the first time I met Bruce.   Kay wasn’t home – I don’t know where she was, but I’m sure she wasn’t off doing something frivolous.  I guess Eric (kind of boisterous at the time) and Nate (kind of quiet) hit it off, because more playdates followed. Gradually a core group of friends formed, thanks to day care, school, and sports —  friendships that grew and lasted through high school and beyond, for both the boys and their parents.   These boys grew up with a whole tribe of parents looking out for them, supporting them, coordinating their summer camps, coaching them, mentoring them, driving them, feeding them, enjoying their company, checking in with each other, and sometimes worrying about them.  I feel so grateful to have had this close-knit community, and that it’s lasted through the years, despite geographic distance.  I’m grateful that Kay was part of it and grateful that she knew that all of us who’ve stayed in Takoma Park will be here for Nate and Halie (who, happily, chose to move back to MD from LA a few years ago).  And she knew we’ll be here for 2-year old Collin as he grows up.  He won’t likely remember his grandmother much, if at all, but he’ll be surrounded by people who knew and loved her and will help keep her memory alive. 

I’m posting some pictures from celebrations through the years – the “moms” celebrating the boys’ 2001 high school graduation, the annual 4th of July Takoma Park parade celebration at Pat and Wabi’s (which, until they moved from Takoma Park in 2001,  was always followed by a pre-fireworks barbecue at Kay and Bruce’s);  and at one of the weddings of the Takoma Park group of friends.

 I don’t know with how many people Kay played “Words with Friends,” but she was my one and only “Words with Friends” buddy.   I loved the feeling of connection with her when that little “ping” on my phone would let me know she’d just played a word, 3,000 miles away.  I miss that and miss knowing she’s in the world, making it more beautiful and fighting to make it better.

 

The “Mothers of Sons” group, at the boys’ high school graduation celebration, 2001Kay (1) (1).jpg

 

at a Takoma Park 4th of July celebration, with Wabi AboudouIMG_4441 (1).JPG

 

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Kay in her spectacular garden, being a spectacular hostess and cookIMG_1644 (4).JPG

Author:
Linda Carlson
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From 1988, when our sons were kindergarteners in Takoma Park, MD