Memories of Kay

Celebrating the Defeat of Crude Oil in Grays Harbor

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Among the many things we loved about Kay was her passionate support for our work in Grays Harbor to protect our fragile environment.  Not just the funding, which, of course, was important, but her very presence being there with us. She and Bruce came down to Grays Harbor on many occasions to join with activists in fighting proposed crude oil terminals near the hemispherically significant migratory bird refuge.  They were regulars at the Shorebird Festival every year, helping distribute information about the threat to millions of migratory birds who stop every year at the Refuge..  They were with us at the Washington State Supreme Court when we successfully argued for ORMA, the Ocean Resource Management Act, critical legislation that set policies and guidelines for Washington’s coastal, seabeds, and shorelines.

Over the years we grew to be friends as well as fellow rebels.  We treasured the time we could share with her and Bruce.  She is terribly missed.

Author:
Linda Orgel & RD Grunbaum
Connected:
Through the Harder Foundation and Pam at NW Fund for the Environment

favorite movie

Based on the number of times she watched it, I’d say Kay’s favorite movie was Broadcast News, from the late 80s.  Kay completely identified with Holly Hunter, who plays a network TV news manager, constantly juggling the insane demands of her job, both capably, ethically, and with humor.  I note two things:

After navigating a harrowing encounter, Holly stole away for a moment, closed the door to her office, sat down, and cried.  Just for a moment.  Then dried her eyes, opened the door, and got back in the driver’s seat.  The task of fulfilling everyone’s needs, while keeping the bus moving forward, was taxing.  But an emotional display would distract people, so she kept the price she paid private.  Even from me, usually.

Second: there’s an exchange in which William Hurt says “It must be nice to always think you’re the smartest person in the room.”  To which Holly Hunter replies “No.  It’s awful.”  Kay always nodded at that line.

Author:

Bruce Hoeft

Connected:

partner

A Poem for Kay

In Memory of Kay     5-22-22

In my eyes so short-sighted
you were always a granola kid
and from granola we all came
all of us, and one day to granola
we’ll all return to that dust bowl
once filled with daring youth
now with hope that soon we’ll meet
in a heaven filled with toasted oats and nuts
and raisins and reasons to be content
with this place we called our home.

Oh, we wrecked some bad plans together, Kay,
you and the rest of our Greenpeace Pea Pod
stopped those big oil tankers from filling their bellies with crude
and spilling their guts on our once happy Orca trails
and ruining our mighty salmon runs
beyond repair on a Sound turned silent.

Then there’s that day when we took on the Japanese embassy
driving like errant children to a mad hatter’s party
in my decorative ’64 Plymouth Valiant station wagon
when the front hood buckled against my windshield during rush hour
and what a rush that was
as I pulled onto the shoulder to retie the hood
with spare wire and rope and more hope than any of us
could spare.

Or remember that day we brought arms full of balloons
filled with helium to fill the Canadian embassy with our selves.
I still wonder what the Canucks did with all of that
yellow and blue and green flotsam that bobbed around their office ceilings and walls.

I remember the day we both joined the Cause
your first task was to design a button board
mine to sell the buttons at a dollar in the bars.
From button board designs to board of directors
you grew so fast and tall it surprised us all!
Yet to me, you’ll always be that granola kid
who played guitar and sang whale songs
so many years ago in the far away land of youth.

Yet, Kay, all memories aside,
this is your memorial
and our time to reflect.
But who are we to question why
we live awhile and then we die?
Our spirits go off somewhere perhaps
for a well-earned break or nap before returning.
I wonder when and what form you’ll take
a windblown sailor in some storm’s wake
battling against another rusty Goliath
weaving circles around the old coast guard,
or in your garden planting dahlias
where knobby bulbs set deep in soil
turn into wondrous powers of flowers
that last forever days in granola hours.

Author:

Alfredo Quarto

Connected:

from 7 years with Greenpeace Seattle from 1977-1984

Kay changed my life and was my greatest teacher

Kay Treakle changed my life and helped define my approach to activism. She was my mentor, my boss and eventually my good friend. I think about her all the time, I miss her, and I still find myself wanting her sage advice.
I first connected with her in the late-1990s. I was a 20-something working for Oxfam International in Maputo, Mozambique, where I was helping local organizations to challenge the role of the World Bank and the International Monetary Fund.
Kay already had decades of experience under her belt, including time on the ships and zodiacs that defined the early-days of Greenpeace. But in the late-90s she was in Washington, D.C., at an environmental organization called the Bank Information Centre.
I reached out to her and she eventually came down to Maputo to do a training for us on the inner workings of the World Bank.

One night while she was in Maputo she looked over at me and, completly out of the blue, said: “Why don’t you come to Washington and help us start an Africa program?”

I don’t remember what I said to her, but less than two years later I pulled into D.C. and proceeded to work for her for the next four years.

During my time in Washington she gave me all the space I needed to make my own mistakes and all the support I needed to thrive. She was  always there for me but never took any of my shit.
I’m blessed to have learnt from a lot of great activists over the course of my life, but I hear her voice more than anyone:
– When I’m outraged and want to rush into a situation filled with righteous indignation I can hear her say: “you have to have the charts and graphs to back you up!!!”.
– When I get too focused on the urgency and importance of any one political arena, country, or opportunity, I hear her talking about solidarity and the importance of working to the needs of your partners.
– As an Executive Director, when I get too focused on building the organization that I’m immediately responsible for, I can hear her telling me that we need to be building a movement not an organization (we are are stronger together).
– When I’m worried that something is going to disrupt a delicate political relationship that I’ve built, I picture her on a zodiac in front of massive whaling ship and I’m reminded of the importance of symbolism, civil disobedience and direct action.
– And every time I try to sell a particular strategy as “the one and true way to make change”, I hear her reminding me that movements are like ecosystems (it takes a village) and change-making is about attacking a problem “with spears from all sides”.
There is no doubt that Kay had an edge (though she hid it better than I’ve ever been able to when dealing with troglodytes). You could tell that she was pissed-off about the social and environmental injustices that define our world. She was tough as nails, did not always suffer fools gladly and cursed like a sailor behind the scenes. But she  had a Socratic approach to conversations (she always helped me think through an issue by drawing me out) and her edge always manifested as an unapologetic insistence on clear strategic thinking (she could help you turn your anger into a theory of change and strategy – and man did she ever love a clear and tight strategy, I’ve never met a better campaign strategist).
Finally, I remember her cackle. She loved to laugh and it came out of her like it was suddenly breaking through a dam. It kind of exploded and then lingered in a big smile that had a way of making you feel happy (even proud) that you’d somehow managed to make her laugh. Among many other things, Kay had a healthy appreciation for the absurd – which is one of the many reasons we got along so well.
Thanks Kay. I’ll be looking for you on the other side
Author:

Graham Saul

Connected:

I worked for her and she was my friend